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LIFE's IFs

I had this idea for a book about LIFE lessons called LIFE's IFs where each chapter title contains the word IF. It is telling that the word LIFE contains the word IF exactly in the middle. One of the first things I learnt in coding in school was if then else statements. Conditional statements are core to coding and I think we can say the same for life. We are constantly navigating choices, conditions, and consequences in life.

Some chapter ideas

We would be happier if we had more money
We could fix things if we could go back in time
We would do more if failure was not an option
We would feel lighter if we stopped carrying everything
We would learn more if we listened more
We would succeed if we waited for the right time
We would judge less if we knew the whole story
We would find more peace if we stopped needing to be right
We would value time more if we could see the countdown
We would appreciate the sun if it did not rise every morning

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