It is 617pm and I have decided to write. Right now I am thankful. The cool of the evening has replaced the heat of the day. I took a bath and changed and now I am just relaxing. Sometimes I complain. Not often. But I feel bad afterwards because there is so much to be thankful for. There is always room for improvement and we have to identify the things for improvement and change is often good but we do not have to make it into complaints. Yeah I get it. Life is hard and none of us has it easy. Look on the bright side of things. And sometimes it is the little things that remind us that life is good. Things that we take for granted. Like I was coming in the maxi taxi today and heard a gospel song that was about gratitude. God does appreciate a grateful heart.
Trinidad and Tobago celebrated sixty four years of independence yesterday and if we stop and listen to the many complaints we would swear we are living in the worst country in the world. That is not the case. We do get a lot of things right in this country. We cannot let the negativity destroy what we have and for the things that need improving, they should always be in the context of the good that we have. We should carry with us a solutions minded approach. Be part of the solution. Do not allow politics and pettiness to destroy what many have worked hard to build.
My friend understands where I am coming from and leading to. Finding quiet clarity in the evening, like enjoying the cool evening after a hot day, offers a grounded reminder that recognizing what needs improvement is vastly different from falling into chronic complaining. While life presents real challenges and public discourse often amplifies the negative, preserving perspective and choosing a solutions-minded approach protects both personal peace and collective progress. Focusing on genuine gratitude—for small daily moments, shared history, and foundational strengths—allows constructive change to build upon what is already good rather than tearing it down.
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